In some ways, voicing out all the freaky things that’s on your mind is more revealing than taking your clothes off. After all, in the latter, you only bare your body while in the former, you bare your soul. Sex is first conceived in the brain. In fact, 80% of the sex we have in our lifetimes occur inside our heads. These comprise of the carnal memories, the buildup of desire, and the conscious and subconscious fantasies. These are the driving forces that influence all things that we do during the actual intimate act. By the time you slip into the sheets, your brain has been leading up to the erotic encounter. In other words, even before you start getting down and dirty with your lover, your mind has already fondled and fucked him/her a thousand times over. Perhaps you’ve already read somewhere that the brain is the largest, most powerful sex organ that men and women commonly share. After all, the brain has a boundless reserve of sensual stimuli and it’s where the sex drive originates. Each time you moan, scream, or whisper something into your lover’s ear, his/her brain’s hearing center processes it. It is also processed by the temporal, frontal, and occipital lobes. So, while this important sexual organ may not be touched physically, dirty talk before and during sex allows you to lick, caress, and fuck various parts of your lover’s brain all at one time and all while you’re pleasuring your partner’s body.
Do test it out by saying ‘I had an erotic dream about X’. See what reaction you get. If they perk up, want details and seem interested, you’re safe to follow it up with ‘Why don’t we try it out sometime?
There is more to tantra than meets the eye. Tantric sex is just but a single aspect of tantra, and if you’re wondering why you should begin adopting this approach to sex, you’ll be pleased to discover there are many reasons why.
Remember an important thing, as someone rightly said, that sexual aggressiveness and desire doesn’t just come from the feel of the skin and the built of the body, but sex is in the mind, the more sexually aggressive the mind, the more the body will automatically react for sexual needs, and so the erections.
CHECK-IN: Are you holding your marriage back by not making it—and sex—a priority? What could your life look like if you put more energy and attention into your spouse?
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